We are social creatures. We are built to connect, to search for our people, our tribe.
We spend years experimenting, making mistakes, cursing bad timing, and doing it all over again. And then we find the one. The one who balances us out, understands our quirks ... hell, even loves our quirks.
But then, it gets hard. And we question ourselves, our partners, our choices, our future.
If this sounds familiar, I have a few things to say to you...
First, you are most assuredly not alone.
Second, relationships are hard ... like really, really hard. And amazing, life changing-ly amazing.
Third, hard does not mean impossible, or even unpleasant. We work hard for the things we love, right?
I love working with couples, no matter where you are in your relationship. I love witnessing the energy between partners, watching it ebb and flow as we create the safety for everyone to just let all that inner shit out. I love the moments when each partner picks up the thread and slowly, and carefully, begins to learn how to find the connection again.
Want to work together to find that thread, no matter how frayed, that drew you to each other in the beginning? I will sit in all the tension and frustration and sadness right alongside you both and allow your relationship the space to strengthen the threads again.
If you're willing to let me in, to let your partner in, and to be open to all the layers of yourself, then there is a way through this space.
I don't have the answers to your relationship struggles but I can help you both to find clarity with each other and for yourselves. I can help you get to know yourself and your partner in new ways.
Oh, and in case you're wondering, I'm totally down to wade through the ups and downs of partnership of just about all varieties. Straight, gay, bi, married, shacking up, thrice divorced, trans ... my job is to help us all find love and connection, not to judge the paths we take to find it.